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<rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Sui Generis - Latest Comments in How YOU deal with failure/change | Sui Generis</title><link>http://derrickkwa.disqus.com/</link><description></description><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 04:11:00 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: How YOU deal with failure/change | Sui Generis</title><link>http://derrickkwa.com/archives/how-you-deal-with-failurechange/#comment-1822920</link><description>i reflect and think about the reasons why i failed and try not to make the same mistake again.reflection had enabled me to accept uncertainty and confusion and accept failure as part of the learning process.&lt;br&gt;i've read that you have been struggling lately.undoubtedly,life is full of stuggles and setbacks.hope that you can break free from the struggles and continue to soar.view things with an open mind and perharps,you can find that setbacks,can actually be interesting and challenging!good luck and all the best!^ ^&lt;/br&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Anonymous</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 04:11:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: How YOU deal with failure/change | Sui Generis</title><link>http://derrickkwa.com/archives/how-you-deal-with-failurechange/#comment-1822919</link><description>One of my favorite quotes is "&lt;a href="http://cheerfulmonk.com/2007/10/08/if-you-cant-pronounce-it-say-it-loud/" rel="nofollow"&gt;If you can't pronounce it, say it loud!&lt;/a&gt;" It reminds me to go past the incident and focus on lifelong learning.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Jean Browman--Cheerful Monk</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2007 16:44:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: How YOU deal with failure/change | Sui Generis</title><link>http://derrickkwa.com/archives/how-you-deal-with-failurechange/#comment-1822918</link><description>Thanks for the advice. =). It's easier said than done, I suppose. But it's still good advice.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Derrick Kwa</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2007 12:10:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: How YOU deal with failure/change | Sui Generis</title><link>http://derrickkwa.com/archives/how-you-deal-with-failurechange/#comment-1822917</link><description>When I feel bad about a mistake I made I analyze my feelings and the situation. I see failure as an opportunity to grow and I practice being grateful of the courage it took to make a mistake. I ask myself: What caused this bad feeling? What should I change in my life to avoid this? And I try to change my life the best I can.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Thomas</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2007 07:08:00 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>